VITALIZE - Childproof Deals

Updated: Mar 23, 2020

"Vitalization through the demoting depths of stress."

VITALIZE - The Eye of The Storm

(Excerpts from the new magazine: "VITALIZE -The Eye of the Storm.")

(Source:, 2019)


"Childproofing Deals"

One anonymous acronym says that F.A.M.I.L.Y stands for “Father and Mother I Love You.”

We all grew up in either one of two groups - Either with our nuclear family intact or with our nuclear family disconnected for whatever reason.

We see lawyers in court along with the second group clad all of those files with past case law. Like a clogged filter that keeps pushing any figurative fresh and clean water at the forefront of the social pipeline into dirty and muddy water from the backside of the social pipeline.

We can also see engineers who design future constructive projects like brand new computers, new smart phones, new buildings, and new skyscrapers on computer software before they’re even built using the state-of-the-art scientific law of physics. Like a super filter that keeps assisting any figurative fresh and clean water at the forefront of the social pipeline into freshers and cleaner water for the next-generation of the social pipeline. Thus, reverse-isolating children from those old deals and floating them through stressful ordeals.

Childhood blindspots, stress and death are at an all-time high. Combining these two law practices was a genesis to childproofing deals. It was a starting point to childproofing legal contract makings like divorce and family policy. A new mix of buried treasures and prosperity awaiting both groups of families.

"Let's put a safety zone around them there fountains of smelly Kool Aid!" 😎

Stressful Deals

"Isolation Danger"

Square one for designing an effective childproof area around deals, and preventing isolation dangers, is to first realize how isolation dynamics work. Isolation is defined as a state of being in a place or separated from others. This is like being left out of getting picked for a team. Like waiting for a medical diagnosis that never comes. Isolation division dynamics are like being dropped from the portrait on Mount Rushmore and from all of future history itself because you were too young and too voiceless to ever have had a chance to be considered in policy. Hard divisive justice puts little ones in isolation dangers. Easy justice is a new area to help float the isolated people through.

Safety Area

John Stacey Adams Equity Theory explains that people value fair treatment. Childproof deals are contracts that are worked for and written which do not isolate children from a normal state of being.

The Hawthorne Effect in social psychology says that any attention improves well-being. Individuals positively change their behaviors simply from being observed. Conversely, the Isolation Effect negatively changes one’s behavior simply from being ignored. In a television ministry that I help direct at Maranatha Church in Decatur, Illinois, it's easy to see the differences between the Hawthorne effects and the isolation effects. We have two camera people operating two cameras. Each in a different location and a different view. The director switches back and forth between the two cameras and we have headphones on to let each other know when the shot is from their camera and when it is not. When we're on camera number one, then that operator is usually on point and tracks with the speaker back and forth across the stage very well. In the mean time, camera number two is semi-ignored and is usually not on point and not tracking very well with the speaker across the stage. Those two performance differences are like the differences between the Hawthorne Effect and the Isolation Effect.

Unfortunately, isolation effects can become dangerous in some situations. Like when children are left inside of hot cars, or when victims of verbal and physical abuse end up with no will to oppose it. Nor the will to testify. Isolation effects are dangerous when victims and children feel extremely nixed (canceled out of) their own lives and well-being efforts.

Understanding how isolation deals work like in a divorce contract or in a union strike will go a long way to helping us prevent things like human trafficking and gun violence. Because we need to know how post-fact systems grind in order to create pre-fact preventions. Prevention is the new inclusive safety area. We have to know how post-fact systems nix, drop, isolate, frame, and develop in order to design safety and prevent isolation dangers. From this understanding, we see how to childproof deals and how to prevent the crimes.

(Source:, 2019)

On October 29, 2019, Teacher's Assistants (TAs) in Decatur, Illinois went on strike. They went on strike and both sides were fiercely fencing the other while leaving students out and off balance. WAND-TV (2019) reported that DFTA (Decatur Federation of Teaching Assistants) Union President Paula Busboom said that the union needs "fair contracts" because she said their insurance costs had recently increased by "247" percent. While DPS (Decatur Public School) Board Member Regan Lewis said that "the health insurance plan we've offered is the same plan and same cost that teachers, maintenance and others employed by the district.” This is Deal Fencing 101.

Contract Disputes & Blindspots

There are probably millions of contract disputes every year. And like in any family law contract dispute for say child support, these fierce fencing divisions are similar. A fencing match ensues when each side jabs and pressures the other side to try and pus harder and harder. Often, with exaggerated emotions and weird claims to hopeful become the tipping point and force the other's hand.

Typically, there's always one glaring blindspot - The children involved. Usually, an exaggerated claim is made at first to leave room to retract from that position later. It's like haggling for a car that you want but that you know is overpriced. But with deals involving children like in the teacher's union versus school board contract dispute, children left in some depth of stress of stress like being left in a hot automobile during the hottests summer on record.

Divisive Deal Blindspot

"Why separate & isolate when we can deal straight?"🎚